I would have been fine if he had been talking with us normally, and brought it up as part of a conversation.
Sure, it still would have been rude - but I could've talked that through with the man. I can deal with problematic things said out of ignorance.
What I'm NOT OKAY with is that this random white man had the audacity to tell two COMPLETE STRANGERS not to have kids cause they'd be as androgynous as they both are.
And then when he got called out on that - he just went yup! I'm asking what's in your pants.
That's not ignorance.
That's hate - and he wanted it to hurt.
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