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Attention: seeking it and getting it is Good, Actually
Beware those who shame others for it
"She's just doing that for attention"
And you're just shaming her for seeking attention so you can get attention, so what's up?
I posted this bc this was going on--they've blocked me but I keep seeing this last post. It's annoying because I wasn't saying that cults of personality/influence hoarding aren't problems. I just don't think they result from the desire for attention *in isolation*. & this whole convo didn't undermine the idea that focusing on that urge *in isolation* isn't a red flag.
@SallyStrange I'm so tired of these "if you won't die on this hill with me, you're against me" types.