I don't think I understand what "romance" is.
My best explanation has always been "the re-enactment of tropes from media that are socially coded as romantic". Buying flowers, doing the Lady & the Tramp pasta thing, etc. But it's just.. mimicry! Interested in others' hopefully more nuanced thoughts on this.
Sunbeam City is a anticapitalist, antifascist solarpunk instance that is run collectively.