@Fenris @solarbear It's tricky. NVC can be stifling to marginalized ppl if implemented too strictly, & then there's the difference between a "safe" space and a "liberated" space, to use the terminology I picked up from a friend.
IME, any efforts to be considerate of traumatized ppl enable white fragility, but pushing for higher standards risks setting standards only privileged NTs consider reasonable in the first place.
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@solarbear I've always felt like there had to be some way to prevent that, like a technique or something. I know there's non violent communication, but that's really all I know...