funeral
one of the most touching moments of any funeral i've ever been to was when the burial & service was done, the trumpet player climbed to the highest spot of the cemetery and played a song by themselves. there was a fog and the sound echoed over the hills a little and it was all very haunting.
funeral
compared to that, this funeral today was very sad. barely anyone showed up (and tbh, if he hadn't been family, i'm not sure i would have made the time either - which makes me feel all sorts of awful).