A thing about abuse and abusers
Plausible deniability is a key tool for abusers and fash. If someone repeatedly says/does stuff that makes others uncomfortable but they always end up having some plausible reason why you shouldn't interpret their actions in a negative light, consider if that's intentional.
Sunbeam City is a Libertarian Socialist solarpunk instance. It is ran democratically by a cooperative of like-minded individuals.